Will you marry me?

Different preparations for wedding and process between China and the UK

As we all know, Chinese people are traditional, even when one propose marriage, they will not say I love you, so if they want to marry, they need a third person-go between to negotiate with their family. Compared with Chinese people, British people are open- minded and they say many ‘I love you’

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In China, the bridegroom- to-be is preparing a flat as their new home and buy a ring, a necklace, while the bride-to-be is preparing new furniture and maybe a car.


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In GB, young people don’t demand too much. If they love each other ,they will live together and a ring tells people they are lovers. Sometimes, people just want to ask a partner.

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Chinese people will hold their wedding ceremony in a restaurant while British people will hold their wedding ceremony in a church or a big hall.

Questions about family relationship

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Preparations for wedding and process
1. Will the bridegrooms get down on their knees for proposal before the wedding, and how do people usually propose?
2. How long will people prepare for their wedding?
3. How do people decide their wedding day, will they follow their parents’ idea? How did you decide your wedding day?
4. What do people prepare for their wedding? Besides the ring, is there anything else will the bride-to-be or the bridegroom-to-be buy for each other? Would you mind telling me what you bought for your partner? Was he or she satisfied?
5. Who will pay for the new house? The bride family or the bridegroom family or the new couple themselves? Will the parents prepare some wedding funds for their children?
6. Where do people usually hold their wedding? Who will be invited to attend your wedding?
7. Will people hold a special wedding ceremony? Will people exchange the wedding ring on the wedding day and who will buy the wedding ring?
8. Is there something special that the new couple have to do on the wedding day or in the following several days?
9. What proportion do people live together before marriage?
10. When do people get a marriage certificate? What proportion are people willing to get a marriage certificate?