‘My experience of choosing to study in the UK’ by Jood Al Otaibi

Jood Al Otaibi, a third-year international student from Jordan, is studying a bachelors degree in Marketing Management at the University of Brighton. Jood shares her journey – from arriving in Brighton, to combatting homesickness, plus her advice for fellow international students.

Author: Jood Al Otaibi 

Starting university is a big step, but starting it in a whole new country? That’s a giant leap. I made that leap when I moved to the UK alone at 17 to study at the University of Brighton, and I’m here to share a bit about what it’s been like, what I wish I knew, and how you can make the most out of your experience here.

Why I chose to study in the UK

I’d always known I wanted to study abroad. I was drawn to the UK for its strong reputation in business and marketing education, and Brighton stood out for its creative, open-minded atmosphere. I loved the idea of studying by the sea, in a vibrant city that celebrates diversity. 

Before arriving, I had imagined that life here would be very structured and cold, both in terms of weather and people. I expected strict routines and constant rain; honestly, I was a bit intimidated. Would I make friends easily? Would I be able to keep up academically? Would I feel safe and supported? 

When I first arrived in Brighton

The reality hit differently. I landed in the UK completely alone, no family to help me move in or figure things out. It was overwhelming at first. The first big culture shock? The food. I missed the taste of home more than I expected. Everything felt blander, and I didn’t know where to find the ingredients I grew up with. I also struggled a bit with small cultural things like how people say “You alright?” as a greeting – I used to wonder if I looked sick! 

The weather was another adjustment. I wasn’t accustomed to cloudy days that seemed to last forever. The lack of sunlight in winter affected my mood more than I expected, and it took me a while to realise that this was normal, and that I could do things to feel better. 

What surprised me the most, though, was how friendly people were. Brighton is incredibly accepting and diverse. I saw people express themselves freely, and it made me feel like I could do the same. I found kindness in strangers, flatmates, course mates, and even shopkeepers.

How I combatted homesickness

Homesickness is a real phenomenon, especially in the early stages. There were moments when I missed my family so deeply it felt physical. But over time, I found ways to make Brighton feel like a second home.

What helped me most was getting involved. I joined societies like the Marketing Society, the Arab Society, and the Climbing Society. I started attending events for international students, where I met people going through the same experiences. 

I also started cooking my favourite meals from home and sharing them with flatmates. It became a great way to connect with others and keep a part of my culture alive. 

Another thing that helped me was creating routines. Having a set time to call home, go for walks, or study at a favourite café gave me structure and made life feel more settled. 

And don’t underestimate the power of the sea. Seriously! Walking along Brighton beach became my therapy. Watching the waves helped me clear my mind and reconnect with myself on difficult days. 

My advice for new international students

If you’re starting at Brighton this September, welcome! Here’s what I wish someone had told me: 

• Be kind to yourself: It’s okay to feel out of place at first. You’re adapting to a new life, and that takes time. 
• Say yes to opportunities: Join societies, attend events, volunteer, or strike up conversations. Even if it feels awkward at first, you’ll be grateful later. 
• Don’t isolate yourself: If you’re feeling down, talk to someone. The university has wellbeing support, and international student advisers are genuinely helpful.
• Stay connected to your roots: Celebrate your culture. Cook your favourite food, speak your language, and find people who understand your background. 
• Explore Brighton! From quirky cafes and vintage shops in the lanes to the peacefulness of the beach, the city has so much to offer – embrace it.

Above all, remember you’re not alone. There are so many of us who feel the same way you do now. And if you ever see me on campus, feel free to say hi! 

I hope this gives you a little insight into what to expect and how to make the most of your time in Brighton. Studying abroad has been one of the most challenging and rewarding experiences of my life, and I wouldn’t trade it for anything. 

Good luck, you’ve got this!! 

Author: Jood Al Otaibi