Category Archives: Sexting

Where To Report A Problem !

 If you’re worried about anything you come across online, you should report it immediately to the relevant organisation and to the site where you saw it.

This is where I suggest you report a problem.

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Action Fraud

If you think you have   been ‘scammed, ripped off or conned’ online you can report it to Action Fraud online or call them on 0300 123 2040.
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CEOP

The CEOP Command of the National Crime Agency is dedicated to tackling the sexual abuse and exploitation of children and young people. You can report concerns about any suspicious sexual behaviour directly to CEOP.
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Internet Watch Foundation

If you see any criminal sexual content online you can report it anonymously to the Internet Watch Foundation.
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ParentPort

If your child has seen any type of content online or offline, that you think is unsuitable for them, you can report it using ParentPort.

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True Vision

If you see any content that incites hatred you can report it to True Vision.
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CTIRU

If you see any content online related to terrorism, you can report it anonymously to the Counter Terrorism Internet Referral Unit (CTIRU).If you’re worried about anything you or your child come across online, you should report it immediately to the relevant organisation and to the site where you or your child saw it.

Sending a sexual text, image or video can be dangerous if shared with the wrong person. Once you send a message, you’re not in control of what happens to it.

Remember images can be altered and shared !

Even if it’s posted online we can help. Here’s some advice about sexting.

What to do if someone asks you to send a photo

Sometimes people send photos because they are indirectly made to feel guilty. For example, somebody might say “I sent you a photo, so where’s mine?” or say that you “promised” them that you would send a picture. This is wrong. It’s also a form of emotional blackmail.

You don’t owe them anything and they shouldn’t try to make you feel guilty.

They might threaten to post a sexual image of you online if you don’t send them more images. This is wrong. It can feel scary or like you’re trapped in the situation. But if you’re not sure what to do, talk to a trusted adult.

I’m feeling pressured

You shouldn’t be pressured into doing anything you don’t want to do. Sex and sexual activity of any kind is something people do together to feel good. It’s not something which can be “owed”. – even if you are in a relationship or have done sexual things with that person before.

How to stop someone sexting you

With text messages and calls it can be a bit harder to block someone. This means you should always be careful about giving people your phone number. You can block a particular number from contacting you on some mobiles.

WhatsApp and most messenger apps let you un-invite or block users. Check your phone user guide to see if yours can. If it gets too much, getting your phone number changed or buying a new SIM card is another option. A parent or carer could help you with this.

If an adult has been making you feel uncomfortable by asking you to send them images, you can report them on the CEOP website. If an adult does this it is sometimes called online grooming. It is wrong for anyone to be pressuring you in this way. If you are under 18, they are breaking the law.

Sexting

Why do young people sext?

There are many reasons why a young person may want to send a naked or semi-naked picture, video or message to someone else.

BUT THINK CAREFULLY !

      1. Are you thinking of  joining in because they think that ‘everyone is doing it’?
      2. Does it boost  your self-esteem?
      3. Are you flirting with others and testing your sexual identity?
      4. Exploring  sexual feelings?
      5. Is it to get attention and connect with new people on social media?
      6. Is it  difficult to say no if somebody asks you for an explicit image, especially if the person asking is persistent?

You have shared pictures what now ?

ONCE SHARED IMAGES CAN BE ALTERED !

You’ve already shared photos – What Now?

You’ve already shared photos –

What now?

When sexting goes badly, it can make you feel ashamed, guilty, embarrassed  or anxious… But there are things you can do to make the situation better and prevent it from happening again.

1.Try having an honest conversation with the person you sent the image to. Ask them to delete it. The quicker you’re able to do this the better. You can’t control what someone will do with an image, but having an honest conversation can help to make sure they won’t pass it on.

Getting help

The sooner you talk to somebody about the situation the better. This could be your mum, dad, carer or a school teacher. Your school will have ways of dealing with these sorts of problems and can confiscate mobiles if they believe they have sexual images on them.
If you know that an indecent or nude pic of you or a friend has been posted online, you can contact the website, such as Facebook or YouTube, to have it removed.